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Work on these feelings and needs lists

For the Universal Needs I NEED to divide  these into 3 age groups

Birth - 6-1/2

6-1/2 - 9-1/2

9-1/2 to Adult

List of all Universal Needs for everyone.

PHYSICAL

WELL-BEING 

air

food 

water

shelter

protection (emotional)

safety (protection)

movement/exercise

rest/sleep

sexual expression

touch

health

comfort

warmth 

​

HONESTY

authenticity

congruence

integrity

genuineness

realness

to be seen

to be heard

presence

​

AUTHENTICITY

honesty

integrity

transparency

openness

self-expression

​

AUTONOMY

choice

dignity

freedom

independence

self-expression

space

spontaneity

time

POWER

self-esteem

confidence

dignity

inner power

empowerment

competence

effectiveness

​

HARMONY

peace

tranquility

relaxation

beauty

order

ease

predictability

familiarity

stability

balance

completion

wholeness

​

PEACE 

acceptance

balance

beauty

communion

ease

equanimity

faith

harmony

hope

inspiration

order

space   

​

PLAY 

adventure

excitement

fun

humor

joy

relaxation

stimulation   

LOVE and

ATTENTION

love

compassion

care

attention

acceptance

appreciation

affection

trust

involvement

respect

care

support

nearness

intimacy

tenderness

softness

sensitivity

friendliness

​

PLEASURE

to celebrate

to mourn

flow

humor

laughter

vitality

challenge

stimulation

​

LIVELINESS

to discover

passion

spontaneity

play

CONNECTION 

acceptance

affection

appreciation

authenticity

belonging

closeness

communication

communion

companionship

compassion

consideration

consistency

cooperation

empathy

friendship

kindness

inclusion

integrity

intimacy

love

mutuality

nurturing

partnership

presence

reassurance

respect

self-respect

security

self-acceptance

self-connection  

shared reality

shared values

stability

support

trust

understanding

warmth   

collaboration

reciprocity

company

durability

continuity

to give

to receive

to know

MEANING 

awareness

celebration

challenge

clarity

competence

consciousness

contribution

creativity

discovery

efficiency

effectiveness

growth

hope

integration

integrity

learning

mourning

movement

participation

presence

progress

purpose

self-expression

stimulation

to matter

understanding

to learn

to contribute

inspiration

liberation

transformation

to be present

simplicity   

List of all Universal Needs for everyone.

PHYSICAL

WELL-BEING 

air

food 

water

shelter

protection (emotional)

safety (protection)

movement/exercise

rest/sleep

sexual expression

touch

health

comfort

warmth 

​

HONESTY

authenticity

congruence

integrity

genuineness

realness

to be seen

to be heard

presence

​

AUTHENTICITY

honesty

integrity

transparency

openness

self-expression

​

AUTONOMY

choice

dignity

freedom

independence

self-expression

space

spontaneity

time

POWER

self-esteem

confidence

dignity

inner power

empowerment

competence

effectiveness

​

HARMONY

peace

tranquility

relaxation

beauty

order

ease

predictability

familiarity

stability

balance

completion

wholeness

​

PEACE 

acceptance

balance

beauty

communion

ease

equanimity

faith

harmony

hope

inspiration

order

space   

​

PLAY 

adventure

excitement

fun

humor

joy

relaxation

stimulation   

LOVE and

ATTENTION

love

compassion

care

attention

acceptance

appreciation

affection

trust

involvement

respect

support

nearness

intimacy

tenderness

softness

sensitivity

friendliness

​

PLEASURE

to celebrate

to mourn

flow

humor

laughter

vitality

challenge

stimulation

​

LIVELINESS

to discover

passion

spontaneity

play

CONNECTION 

acceptance

affection

appreciation

authenticity

belonging

closeness

communication

communion

companionship

compassion

consideration

consistency

cooperation

empathy

friendship

kindness

inclusion

integrity

intimacy

love

mutuality

nurturing

partnership

presence

reassurance

respect

self-respect

security

self-acceptance

self-connection  

shared reality

shared values

stability

support

trust

understanding

warmth   

collaboration

reciprocity

company

durability

continuity

to give

to receive

to know

MEANING 

awareness

celebration

challenge

clarity

competence

consciousness

contribution

creativity

discovery

efficiency

effectiveness

growth

hope

integration

integrity

learning

mourning

movement

participation

presence

progress

purpose

self-expression

stimulation

to matter

understanding

to learn

to contribute

inspiration

liberation

transformation

to be present

simplicity   

List of Universal Needs.

M NEVER HAD THESE UNIVERSAL NEEDS

PHYSICAL

WELL-BEING 

air

food 

water

shelter

protection (emotional)

safety (protection)

movement/exercise

rest/sleep

sexual expression

touch

health

comfort

warmth 

​

HONESTY

authenticity

congruence

integrity

genuineness

realness

to be seen

to be heard

presence

​

AUTHENTICITY

honesty

integrity

transparency

openness

self-expression

​

AUTONOMY

choice

dignity

freedom

independence

self-expression

space

spontaneity

time

POWER

self-esteem

confidence

dignity

inner power

empowerment

competence

effectiveness

​

HARMONY

peace

tranquility

relaxation

beauty

order

ease

predictability

familiarity

stability

balance

completion

wholeness

​

PEACE 

acceptance

balance

beauty

communion

ease

equanimity

faith

harmony

hope

inspiration

order

space   

​

PLAY 

adventure

excitement

fun

humor

joy

relaxation

stimulation   

LOVE and

ATTENTION

love

compassion

care

attention

acceptance

appreciation

affection

trust

involvement

respect

support

nearness

intimacy

tenderness

softness

sensitivity

friendliness

​

PLEASURE

to celebrate

to mourn

flow

humor

laughter

vitality

challenge

stimulation

​

LIVELINESS

to discover

passion

spontaneity

play

CONNECTION 

acceptance

affection

appreciation

authenticity

belonging

closeness

communication

communion

companionship

compassion

consideration

consistency

cooperation

empathy

friendship

kindness

inclusion

integrity

intimacy

love

mutuality

nurturing

partnership

presence

reassurance

respect

self-respect

security

self-acceptance

self-connection  

shared reality

shared values

stability

support

trust

understanding

warmth   

collaboration

reciprocity

company

durability

continuity

to give

to receive

to know

MEANING 

awareness

celebration

challenge

clarity

competence

consciousness

contribution

creativity

discovery

efficiency

effectiveness

growth

hope

integration

integrity

learning

mourning

movement

participation

presence

progress

purpose

self-expression

stimulation

to matter

understanding

to learn

to contribute

inspiration

liberation

transformation

to be present

simplicity   

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